While people generally believe that Aries are emotionally straightforward, easily angered by trivial matters but patient with significant issues, they can actually accumulate disappointment in significant matters too. Aries may become picky over trivial matters, leading to accumulated indifference, focusing on their own lives, which may seem like an improvement in the relationship but is actually waiting for the final disappointment. This ultimate disappointment may stem from non-principle-based trivial matters, such as not tidying up the house, staying up late, or not showering.
These behaviors will deplete Aries’ feelings towards you.
Being frequently judged.
Specifically, the other party being unyielding and using a superior attitude to point out your mistakes is really not acceptable to Aries. Regardless of whether your intentions stem from care, disdain, or concern, repeatedly impeding Aries’ own logic and approach to matters will greatly affect them.
Continuously rejecting Aries’ goodwill.
Aries is someone who will bring whatever good they have to you, and they may not necessarily expect equivalent reciprocation, but they do need affirmation. Continuously rejecting or even denying Aries’ efforts can be a fatal blow to your relationship with them.
Not making firm decisions.
Here, firm decisions don’t mean you have a second choice outside of Aries; there’s absolutely no room for that. It’s about whether you can take the initiative with Aries. Just because Aries is straightforward and warmly enthusiastic doesn’t mean you can only enjoy their kindness.
No outlet for emotions.
There are probably only two types of people who can make Aries hold back their temper: those who act aloof when something is wrong and claim nothing is the matter when asked, and those who are extremely eloquent and always manage to argue their way to being right, leaving Aries always on the losing end of arguments. Those angry emotions won’t disappoint Aries; what will is when you force them to hold back emotions they have nowhere to express or vent.
All talk and no action.
This one’s particularly straightforward: Aries really can’t stand people who dawdle or make big boasts they can’t deliver. In everyday social interactions, Aries operate on a “you said it, I believe it” principle, so all talk and no action is just repeatedly wasting Aries’ trust in you.
